Glamping – with crafts!

Ahh, family camp. I sort of thought camp was just for kids until I went to sign up Paloma last year and realized IT’S FOR ME TOO! Unbeknowst to me, my childhood camp, the Bar 717 Ranch, started doing family camp where we could all go together. Now, as sweet as it sounded, I would not have wanted to do this as a kid. My favorite thing about camp was reinventing myself in a safe place where my complicated home life was not a factor. But…Paloma went to both kid camp and family camp with us last year, and she said she’d rather go back only to family camp.

Fewer rules. More play time. Easier.

And that’s what camp seems to be. A whole lot of fresh air and happiness. A clay room, and crafts, and silkscreening, and hiking with sunrises, and swimming in a fresh river every day.

The weird thing is that camp really hasn’t changed at all. I mean AT ALL. The song book has not even been updated. I think the newest tune in there is For What It’s Worth, which was written in…1967? Anyway, the hippies got their way up there. Tie die still rules the roost.

But I love it. Peace and love and lots of fresh air. Nice people to help cook and clean and sing with us and make it fun and easy.

What a nice way to start this trip. Fun and easy. And together, with my girls. <3

Now for some photos:

Before leaving: one last selfie on the back yard trampoline.

Paloma finds a happy barn cat.

The chickens are feathered.

Anika holds no reservation to get up and dance during the camp songs. Too much sugar? Nah…

Paloma’s newest best little-brother-she-never-got, Stone.

The smoke rolled in sometimes from Oregon fires, making unreal morning sunrise colors.

Paloma took this upside down photo in the pond one morning on the walk from our sleeping platform to the meal platform.

Anika is truly un-talented, as shown in her fabulous performance of “meow.”

 

We milked the goat. The baby still posed with us even though we stole her breakfast.

Anika composes “meow” with Emi.

And the big swing was…big.

An afternoon with Paloma.

The swim hole was always the perfect temperature for a swim, especially on really hot days.

My sunglasses match the local nuts!

The hike up Gates mountain was not really on a trail so much as a fire break. And it was steep. Really steep. For a really long time. We had to slide down at times….

Previous hikers’ support message, 1/4 mile from the top.

The sun is rising!

And we hike.

And we hike.

Stopping points on the way to gates. A teepee, and Illa. A fresh water spring, and Paloma.

Farm dinner at the river!

Ropes course with Anika: The Flying Squirrel. Have you ever done that? You run, and then as you’re diving off the edge of a hill, your 22 friends pull you up about twenty feet into the air and you just start flying. It was REALLY fun.

Sunday morning breakfast was so fun we did it twice! On Tuesday morning I got inspired to make “french apples” as a counsellor called them, fried on the wood fired grill and later turned into a pancake.

Paloma crafts a bowl.

That pig would snort back every time I snorted at it.

 

My horse Sage was super big and super awesome. So nice. Probably all of the hearts on her bridle.

My girls on horses, off to the river for a swim.

This is what happens to your car when you space out and drive off the cliff. This happened on wednesday morning at 5 am. Yikes. Guy climbed out alive – amazing.

Boat race!

Mini Crockie! Anika could not bring her lovie on our trip because it’s too big, and too old (it was mine, and my sister’s and my mom’s, so it’s seen a long life of love). So, I decided to up my dad-game and make a mini lovie for anika’s journey.

At the eating platform, enjoying one final delicious farm meal together.

total solar magnificence

I can't stop thinking about the corona. I think that's what it's called. The sun, when it was fully obscured, looked like it was billowing with cotton candy, streaming out from the glowing ring in long wispy strings of white. I guess they are always there, but we can't see them. What other amazingly beautiful things in nature's creation can't we see? 
I was surprised by a few things. How long it took: hours! How weird the darkness was: like dark gray sunglasses. How much more fun the anticipation was, than the second half: like childhood versus old age. How very cold it got: cold enough that Rachel got her jacket. And how completely spectacular the eclipse was: the enormity of it; how big the sun seemed with the corona; how much the sky seemed more alive during the sun's partial death than it usually does in the bright, too-glaring-to-watch daytime that I love thoughtlessly each day. 
If I could witness that every day, I would do it. I would stop everything I was doing and stare at the sun for those two minutes and try to drag them to eternity in my memory. Try to burn the details of the rapidly changing skyscape into my visual memory for my eternity. 
There are no photos, no videos, no records that quite capture it. It was too much. Too dynamic. Too unique for human representation.

xmas in s africa

A decision made!
My rationale, just sort of "thinking out loud": 
  • we'd never go there on a normal holiday break
  • our friends are super comfortable in Africa, so that will be a treat to be there with them
  • other friends we've traveled with told us we'd love cape town, and I believe them. 🙂 
  • I think it will be interesting and different from home, but easy too (speak english, things will be familiar enough) so we can relax
  • looks like great waves for the girls, and plenty of other things to do for the group. the girls can wear wetsuits.

east or west…

which way should we go? Here’s a link to an interactive map you can play with.
A main thing on my mind with the planning is, will we have breaks when we want them, so we don’t get too worn out? Here are the plans so far, with what I expect will be the harder parts in bold.

The original plan: head east

  1. Iceland. Hiking, crazy landscapes. Climate Change.
  2. Europe. Friends, show our kids Switzerland (honeymoon!), take a train, eat cheese and chocolate (make cheese and chocolate?). Learn western civ.
  3. Morocco. Start exploring more different cultures
  4. Israel, Jordan, Egypt. See friends, explore ancient and modern civilizations. Mid east politics past and present.
  5. South Africa for xmas. Colonialism, apartheid.
  6. India. Get out of our comfort zone, see a really different lifestyle
  7. Nepal, Bhutan. Mountains, landscapes, hiking, buddhism. Chinese culture, Mongolian history, geology.
  8. Australia. Friends.
  9. New Zealand. Hike, tour. Take a break.
  10. Tahiti. Surfing!
  11. Argentina, Guatemala, Mexico. Learn Spanish and learn about latin cultures before coming home.

 

A new plan: head West

This plan doesn’t really make much sense yet. Will we burn out before xmas? Will we be sad that we never learned Spanish in S/Central America? Here’s where it’s at:

  1. Australia. Soft start for the kids: English speaking, swimming, see friends.
  2. Mongolia. See the golden eagle festival. Indigenous culture, really different. Cold, barren landscapes.
  3. India. More different cultures
  4. Nepal. Visit Sophie. Mountains.
  5. Bhutan. Mountains, landscapes, buddhism
  6. More of E. Asia: Vietnam, Cambodia
  7. Sri Lanka. Slow down on some islands. Still cultural
  8. Maldives. beach vacation.
  9. UAE: modern mid east, oil & economics
  10. S Africa: xmas. apartheid, beach, safari
  11. Egypt, Jordan: ancient civ + modern ones
  12. Israel: take a break with friends. Zionism. Jewish history.
  13. Morocco: food, mixing of cultures
  14. Spain: into W. Europe
  15. Turkey
  16. W Europe and Iceland
  17. Vacation in Greece with Friends
  18. Home

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Plan #2 covers all the continents:

  1. Head S towards central America.
  2. Mexico, Guatemala. Learn Spanish
  3. Colombia, Chile, Brazil, Argentina: explore S America
  4. Antarctica: 2 weeks on a research vessel to learn about the wildlife and climate change
  5. S Africa for xmas. colonialism, apartheid, safari, surfing.
  6. Mid East: Egypt, Jordan, Israel. Cultures, past and present. Zionism.
  7. Morocco: mixing of cultures
  8. W Europe: Spain, France, Netherlands
  9. Iceland in the late winter. Waterfalls and northern lights.
  10. Turkey
  11. India
  12. Nepal, Bhutan
  13. Mongolia
  14. New Zealand: take a break, do some outdoors & hiking
  15. Indonesia & Papau New Guinea. See some very different cultures.
  16. Australia: take another break, hang out with friends
  17. Tahiti: vacation
  18. Home!

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from…the living room

all the ladies are out of town. Just me and Norah Jones here in the living room, trying to manage a whole lot of to-do's and to-figure-outs. I put about 200 pictures on the walls so I can start thinking more visually about all the places we might go… it helps, sort of. 

I noticed this weird thing where travel pictures don't have people in them. Weird! It seems to me that the people are the major attraction. Sure, hiking, and surfing, and cycling, and waterfalls are all AMAZING, but…. So are the people. So I found pictures of people and food, but it wasn't easy. 

Maybe by tomorrow I'll figure out the top two questions: 
  • where to go for the xmas holiday, since Ella's family will join us? 
  • should we travel east or west? 
I'll keep you posted. 
+hayes

Sam I am

We picked a travel agent yesterday. I guess sometimes DIY is not the best plan. I guess the truth is that Rachel and I love to go on trips, but our favorite ones were planned by friends. We just don’t love planning them. So we found Sam. She’s done this before. A few times. Different every time. And people liked her. Hopefully, we will too. 

We still have to decide whether to travel east or west. Rachel leans towards a soft start in Australia. I’ve got to say, that sounds pleasant and easy. There’s something to that. So maybe that’s our new plan.

So many decisions to make. I spent days planning Iceland, and it seems we may just cancel it all. Sigh. I have “Northwest vacation” on my calendar dar every day now but I’m here at home thinking of the future. The death ride is in 6 days and I have not ridden in 5. I have to get off my bum and get in shape! At least I dressed for it. Just gotta get out of here and do some riding now. 

At least last night was fun. Impromptu trip to see a soccer game. Galaxy played the earthquakes at the Stanford stadium and quakes won it in the 94th minute, which was amazing. Tess and Tricia came to sit with us for a while. We went with Mark and Sonia and kids. They sat near us, not too close. But close enough to all feel a part of the crazy cheering fan section next to us that never stopped hooting and dancing for the entire game. 

A nice cherry on top was the never ending fireworks show after the game. It even topped the halftime show, which was pretty cool. A couple pictures to jog the memory…

busy thursday

I didn’t go on the bike ride. I guess I was a bit hung over and woke up late. And I was afraid of the heat. Lame excuses though – I needed the long ride. No long rides yet this year, and the death ride is in less than a month. Sigh. And I’m a bit – how do I say – not at my race weight.

But I think the real excuse was the 8:30 am call to Karine. Wow, we have not talked in a long time! It was nice to reconnect with her. Such a familiar face, from soooo long ago. I’m looking forward to seeing her in southern France. We won’t stay with her, but perhaps will stay nearby. She was excited to have my Mom visiting us there at the same time. She loves my mom.

We were a bit rushed after 45 minutes on skype. We did do morning math again. 2 for 2, but it was less fun today. I have to make them more fun, or we’re not going to want to do them for very long. That’s my job. Fun dad.

Anyhow, I got a lot done today, at least. Long to do list. Crossed off a few of the smaller simpler things that have to be done in advance. Ordered a new passport, so I don’t run out of pages. Called the VW dealerships in WA and CA to see about returning the car. And then filled out more of their paperwork to advance the return process. Made a doctor’s appointment. Made a dentist appointment. Did a writing assignment left over from earlier this week.

Anika tried to get ebooks of the Fred books. Stan said no, in the most polite way imaginable. So…we made our own. YOU CAN’T STOP US, STAN! Rigged up the camera and flash on the tripod, set up a jig, and started flipping pages. 2 hours later we had all the books beautifully scanned, cropped, compressed and bound into nice ebooks. So that’s a good 15 lbs we won’t be schlepping around the world. Thank god.

Hello world!

Looking forward to getting to know you a bit better, big wide world out there.

A few people asked me why we’re going on this trip. Well, here are my main goals:

  1. Be with my family, and get to know them better
  2. Slower and deeper lifestyle. bonding. learning
  3. Visit friends
  4. get our of our bubble. get some context of our place in the world
  5. stay health and safe